Samantha Sommers Journal

Samantha Sommers Journal

Virginal Experiences and The Pursuit of Joy Every Day

The older we get, it seems the less we feel we have to learn or discover.
Fortunately, this is not a truth in life. For if it were, we would soon grow weary of our simple day to day existence. Days would drag on. The light of your smile would grow dim.

Luckily there are many ways to find excitement and newness in life. You simply have to be aware of all of the new experiences that surround you that are waiting to unfold before your eyes.

Those who have known me for years are aware of the joy I feel when I am presented with a Virginal Experience. I celebrate them with sincerity each time I recognize one. I love the austere chance to do something for the first time.

What is a Virginal Experience you ask?
A Virginal Experience is an experience that you have not encountered in life before.
A Virginal Experience can be something as simple as taking a new route home from work, or trying a new restaurant. Or it could be something as daring as finally making a long thought about fantasy with a special person come to fruition.

Trying a new wine, learning a new dance, beginning a new endeavor….the possibilities truly are endless.
I find the merriment that may be had when focusing on newness in life is vital to a general feeling of enthusiasm and may be found nearly every day. If you want to feel happy you will.
Anyone is able to commemorate these occasions when they arrive.

All it takes is to open your eyes and mind and stop being blase’ about your existence.

My advice is to quit being disconnected and disenchanted and try to focus on viewing the world with the eyes of a child. Consider yourself newly born each day.
We are blessed to rise up every day. We are further blessed to be able to recognize that which is new.

Try something you’ve never tried before. And, make a toast to whatever it is and illuminate it’s new-fangled existence in your sphere by taking the time to recognize it. From the elementary to the complex, the world is waiting for you to discover the simple yet plentiful joys that lie in wait.

And, should you find that you didn’t enjoy one of your virginal experiences, fear not! Satisfyingly, you don’t have to repeat it ever again if you do not wish to. You are able to move on and forward without elaboration, and seek out your next exploit and hopefully that one will bring you happiness.


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